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为什么说愚孝是一种心理疾病

为什么说愚孝是一种心理疾病呢?

Why is foolish filial piety a psychological disease?

因为愚孝,并不算真正的孝顺,不仅难以让父母感觉到幸福,而且也让自己的小家庭过得很差。

Because foolish filial piety is not really filial piety. It is not only difficult for parents to feel happy, but also makes their small families live badly.

什么叫愚孝呢?

What is foolish filial piety?

就是分不清对错,一味的顺从父母。

I just can’t tell right from wrong and just obey my parents.

父母对于孩子的爱,是无私的。

Parents’ love for their children is selfless.

但是,如果父母有几个孩子呢?也很可能因为认知和思想局限,会导致对子女不公平对待。

But how many children do parents have? It is also likely that due to cognitive and ideological limitations, children will be treated unfairly.

比如出现重男轻女的思想等等。

For example, the idea of preference for men over women appeared.

当你什么都听父母的,你给父母的,父母都可能全部又给另一个,甚至会对你变本加厉的要求去帮忙。

When you listen to your parents and give everything to your parents, your parents may give it all to another, and even ask you to help.

你自己也过得一般,而你的弟弟或哥哥也混得不怎么样,但你的父母可能还是为了他们,要你帮买车,甚至要求你帮买房。

Your own life is normal, and your brother or brother is not doing well, but your parents may still want you to buy a car or even ask you to buy a house for them.

并不是因为你顺从而对你更好一点,甚至会加重他们的私心,不顾你的死活。

It is not because you are obedient that you are better to you. It will even aggravate their selfishness, regardless of your life or death.

这样的孝顺,不会有好的结果,只是一种愚孝。

Such filial piety will not have a good result, but a kind of foolish filial piety.

孝顺是应该,但不应该成为愚孝,只做自己力所能及的,不属于自己的责任绝不能大包大揽。

Filial piety should be, but should not become foolish filial piety. We should only do what we can, and we should never take all the responsibilities that are not our own.

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