什么才是真正的孝顺？
What is true filial piety?
是什么都要顺父母的么？
Is everything obedient to parents?
其实，什么都顺着父母，也不一定是真的孝顺。
In fact, everything is obedient to parents, which is not necessarily true filial piety.
因为如果这样，我们会失去我们自己，而且会感觉日子过得很累，毕竟两代人的观念和生活方式差距很大的。
Because if we do, we will lose ourselves and feel very tired. After all, there is a big gap between the two generations’ concepts and lifestyle.
不仅我们会过得累，而且还会让我们的伴侣也感觉过得累，甚至自己的小家庭也因此矛盾不断。
Not only will we feel tired, but also our partners will feel tired, and even our own small family will be constantly contradictory.
当自己的小家庭都过不好，又如何能够让父母感觉到晚年的幸福和快乐呢？
How can you make your parents feel happy and happy in their later years when their small families are not well off?
真正的孝顺，并不是什么都顺着父母，而是能够真正的活出耀眼的自己。
True filial piety is not obedient to everything, but can live a dazzling life.
如果你过得越来越好，你甚至成为了你周围人的标杆，你父母则会为你骄傲，他们会享受周围人投来的羡慕的眼光。
If you live better and better, you even become the benchmark of the people around you, your parents will be proud of you, and they will enjoy the envious eyes of the people around you.
有时间多陪父母，同时也不要忘了把时间和精力用来提升和做好自己。
Spend more time with your parents, and at the same time, don’t forget to use your time and energy to improve and do yourself well.
如果和父母的意见不同，可以采取暂时不争论，然后用实际行动来证明自己，随着你越过越好，你的父母也会越来越能够理解你。
If you have different opinions from your parents, you can take the measures of not arguing for a while, and then prove yourself with practical actions. As you get better, your parents will understand you more and more.
