欠钱不还，人品不行的人，一定要远离。
People who don’t pay back money and have bad character must stay away.
朋友之间，亲人之间，相互帮助，是非常常见的。
It is very common for friends and relatives to help each other.
相互借钱，并不是一件稀奇的事情。
It is not uncommon to borrow money from each other.
但是，涉及到金钱这种事情，最是考验人性。
However, when it comes to money, the most important thing is to test human nature.
有些人，平时和你玩得很好，经常一起出去玩，甚至达到了形影不离的程度。
Some people usually play well with you and often go out to play together, even to the extent that they are inseparable.
你会发自内心的信任对方，当对方遇到困难，向你借钱，你可能会毫不犹豫的帮忙了。
You will trust the other party from the bottom of your heart. When the other party encounters difficulties and borrows money from you, you may not hesitate to help.
可自从你借钱给对方后，对方主动和你联系少了，甚至你主动联系，对方都会刻意回避。
However, since you lent money to the other party, the other party has less active contact with you. Even if you contact actively, the other party will deliberately avoid.
借你的钱，到了约定归还的时间了，对方一点动静都没有，甚至一句话都没有提前说。
When it’s time to return the money borrowed from you, the other party hasn’t even said a word in advance.
刚开始，你不好意思催。
At first, you are embarrassed to rush.
可超过了几个月甚至一年或更久，你忍不住主动问了。
But after a few months or even a year or more, you can’t help asking.
你得到了却是冷冷的语气，甚至被扣几个大帽子，比如说你不够朋友，或者怕对方还不起等等大帽子。
You get a cold tone, and even get a few big hats, such as you are not enough friends, or you are afraid that the other party can not afford the big hat.
如果遇到了这样的人，千万不要再给对方面子。
If you meet such a person, don’t give him face again.
想方设法把钱要回来，然后直接远离吧。
Try to get the money back, and then go away.
