越来越沉默的人，往往源于以下这几大原因。
The more and more silent people are often due to the following reasons.
1、看透了人情冷暖。
1. Seen through the warmth and coldness of human feelings.
经历过高峰，经历过低谷，尝尽了人情冷暖。
Having experienced peaks and valleys, we have tasted human feelings.
我们就逐渐的看透了人情冷暖，再也不会为了取悦谁而活。
We will gradually see through the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and will no longer live to please anyone.
对于一些无用的社交，我们开始选择了沉默。
For some useless social activities, we began to choose silence.
看清了一些人，然后再也不想接近了，甚至闲聊的欲望都没有。
After seeing some people clearly, I don’t want to get close to them any more, and even have no desire to chat.
努力过好自己，才是最重要的。
The most important thing is to try to live well.
2、混得不好。
2. Don’t mix well.
当有一天，我们混得很不好，我们通常都会选择沉默，可能一年半载都懒得更新朋友圈。
When one day, we are not doing well, we usually choose to be silent, and may not bother to update our circle of friends for half a year.
很多的聚会，我们都选择了回避，不想去参与。
Many parties, we have chosen to avoid, do not want to participate.
因为这个社会是现实的，当你混得不好，无论走在哪里，都没有话语权，也都不会得到发自内心的尊重。
Because this society is realistic, when you do not mix well, no matter where you go, you will not have the right to speak and will not be respected from the bottom of your heart.
既然如此，何不一个人安安心心的独处呢？
In that case, why not be alone with peace of mind?
3、混得特别好的人。
3. People who mix well.
混得不上不下的人，很喜欢抛头露面。
People who can’t keep up and down like to show up.
而混得特别好的人，往往会低调得可怕，一年到头都没见他们露面。
People who behave well often keep a low profile and don’t show up all year round.
因为他们的圈子已经上升到新的层次，他们只跟有限的和他们层次差不多的人交往。
Because their circle has risen to a new level, they only associate with a limited number of people at their level.
