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人类的命运是由许多因素共同决定的，如基因、家庭环境、社会背景、教育和以往的经历。

The fate of humanity is determined by many factors, such as genes, family environment, social background, education, and past experiences.

福祸都是自心创造的。

Fortune and misfortune are all created by one’s own heart.

这是一句经典的箴言，说明一个人的命运和幸福与他的内心状态密不可分。

This is a classic proverb that states that a person’s fate and happiness are inseparable from their inner state.

“弱者内卷，强者外卷”，这句话传递的是一个社会现象，指出了在某些情况下，不同类型的人在面对挑战时可能会选择不同的策略。

The phrase ‘the weak roll in, the strong roll out’ conveys a social phenomenon, pointing out that in certain situations, different types of people may choose different strategies when facing challenges.

弱者会抱怨，他们总是寻找外部因素来寻找失败的原因，而不愿意看到自身的问题。

The weak will complain, they always look for external factors to find the reasons for failure, and are unwilling to see their own problems.

真正的强者，在遇到困难和挑战时，不会抱怨大环境，而是积极应对、主动解决。

A truly strong person does not complain about the overall environment when encountering difficulties and challenges, but actively responds and solves them.

他们不会被环境和外界因素所束缚，而是会充分发挥自己的能力和智慧，创造出属于自己的机会和空间。

强者自愈，弱者卖惨。

The strong heal themselves, the weak sell out.

强者自愈，弱者卖惨这句话意味着，只有强者才有能力自救，而弱者常常会向外展示自己的无助和悲惨，博取他人的同情和帮助。

强者定律：毫无价值的人，没人帮！

The Law of the Strong: A worthless person has no help!

如果你是毫无价值的人，那么很少有人会愿意帮助你。

有一句話叫“最好的贵人是努力的自己”，它告诉我们，要想吸引好机遇和优秀的人，最重要的是我们自己的努力和成长。

There is a saying called ‘The best noble person is the hardworking oneself’, which tells us that in order to attract good opportunities and excellent people, the most important thing is our own efforts and growth.

首先，我们必须要有明确的目标和计划。

“你若盛开，蝴蝶自来”这句经典的诗句表达了一种深刻的哲学含义，即当我们变得更加出色和成功时，周围的人会自然而然地被吸引过来，帮助我们成长和发展。

The classic poem ‘If you bloom, butterflies come naturally’ expresses a profound philosophical meaning, that as we become more outstanding and successful, people around us will naturally be attracted to help us grow and develop.

要做自己的贵人，首先要让自己不断成长与提升。

在现代社交网络中，人们通过分享信息和交流来扩大自己的社交圈。

In modern social networks, people expand their social circle by sharing information and communicating.

一个独特的现象是，我们的朋友圈中通常有一些人是我们的“贵人”，即对我们的成长和成功起到重要作用的人。