所谓的格局，其实都是被委屈撑大的。
The so-called pattern is actually supported by grievances.
没有人天生顺顺利利，在人生的路上，我们会遇到无数的挫折和委屈，我们会遇到无数的不理解。
No one is naturally smooth and profitable. On the way of life, we will encounter countless setbacks and grievances, and we will encounter countless incomprehension.
在刚开始，我们会因此愤愤然。
At the beginning, we will be angry.
我们会因此总是睡不好，烦恼不断。
We will always have trouble sleeping and worrying.
可是，随着我们的心态越来越强大，我们就逐渐的看开了，不再在乎谁的眼光。
However, as our mentality becomes stronger and stronger, we gradually open our eyes and no longer care who’s eyes.
我们开始为自己而活。
We began to live for ourselves.
在追求理想和梦想的路上，我们不再去寻求谁的理解。
In the pursuit of ideals and dreams, we will no longer seek the understanding of others.
遇到理解的，我们自然会高兴。
We will naturally be happy when we meet people who understand.
遇到不理解的，我们也懒得去解释。
We don’t bother to explain what we don’t understand.
只要不涉及到自己的核心利益，无论对方如何的看自己不顺眼，那也都是无所谓的事情。
As long as it doesn’t involve your core interests, it doesn’t matter how much the other party looks at you.
只需要我们内心明白我们需要什么，我们的人生路是怎样，这就足够了。
It is enough for us to understand what we need and what our life path is.
活出自己，敢于为自己而活，尽可能的把时间和精力花在自己的身上，努力经营自己，努力去追寻自己的梦想，这才是活出自己的格局。
Live your life, dare to live for yourself, spend your time and energy on yourself as much as possible, work hard to manage yourself, and strive to pursue your dreams, which is the pattern of living your life.
