其实，人的格局是被委屈撑大的。
In fact, the pattern of people is supported by grievances.
刚开始，我们受到一些委屈，我们会烦躁，会焦虑，会感觉没有自尊，会让我们产生冲动。
At the beginning, we suffered some grievances, we would be irritable, anxious, feel no self-esteem, and make us impulsive.
甚至去做一些不理智的行为。
Even do some irrational behavior.
可经历的多了，我们慢慢的不再把自己看得过重。
Can experience more, we slowly stop taking ourselves too seriously.
经历得越多，我们的心态越是强大，很多的事情，也都看淡了，不再为一些小事而愤然不怕。
The more we experience, the more powerful our mentality is. Many things are also looked down upon, and we are no longer afraid of some small things.
经历得多了，我们反而更懂得放下自己的姿态，变得更加的谦逊，愿意去接受一些批评和建议。
With more experience, we know better to put down our posture, become more modest and willing to accept some criticism and suggestions.
当有一天，我们开始正视别人的批评，并且学会反省自己，有所选择的改变自己，说明我们越来越成熟了。
When one day, we begin to face up to the criticism of others, and learn to reflect on ourselves, and choose to change ourselves, which means that we are more and more mature.
只要不触及自己的核心利益，我们也懒得去斤斤计较了。
As long as we don’t touch our core interests, we are too lazy to haggle.
对于一些不中听的批评和嘲讽，我们也学会装糊涂，自动去屏蔽。
For some unpleasant criticism and ridicule, we also learn to pretend to be confused and automatically shield.
然后把更多的时间和精力去投入到自己喜欢的事业中和努力提升自己，不再困扰于身边的一些琐碎小事了。
Then put more time and energy into your favorite career and strive to improve yourself, and stop worrying about the trivial things around you.
