不爱说话,性格内向的人,也可以很厉害。
People who are not talkative and introverted can also be very powerful.
有很多人觉得,性格内向难成大事,没什么大魄力。
There are many people who think that introversion is difficult to achieve great things and has little courage.
其实,这是对性格内向的人的一种偏见。
In fact, this is a prejudice against introverts.
或者错把性格内向等同自卑。
Or mistake introversion for inferiority.
自卑、性格内向,都有一个共同特点,那就是不爱说话。
Self-abasement and introversion have a common characteristic, that is, they don’t like talking.
但是,两者又有本质区别。
However, there are essential differences between the two.
自卑的人,不爱说话,是对自己的不自信。
People who have low self-esteem and don’t like to talk are not confident in themselves.
而性格内向的人,不爱说话,很可能只是不屑于去和不同频道的人说太多,他们只是道不同不相为谋,话不投机半句多。
The introverted people, who don’t like to talk, may just disdain to talk too much with people on different channels. They just say different things and don’t conspire with each other.
所以,千万不要一律把不爱说话归结为自卑,更不要把性格内向当成了弱点。
Therefore, don’t always attribute the lack of speech to inferiority complex, let alone regard introversion as weakness.
其实,性格内向的人,很多人都能够在不同的领域获得巨大的成就。
In fact, many introverts can achieve great achievements in different fields.
因为他们更敢于坚持去做好自己,并且善于把时间和精力用来打磨自己,他们的耐心和细心,使得他们在一些领域拥有很大的优势。
Because they are more willing to insist on being good at themselves and are good at using their time and energy to polish themselves, their patience and care make them have great advantages in some fields.
正确认识性格内向,并且充分利用好,性格内向的人,往往也是可以变得非常厉害。
Correctly recognize introverts and make full use of them. People with introverts can also become very powerful.
