有个定律叫吸引力定律。
There is a law called the law of attraction.
我们当下过得怎样，我们会遇到什么样的人或事，其实并不是凭空产生，而是被我们自身吸引而来。
How we live now and what kind of people or things we will encounter are not created out of thin air, but attracted by ourselves.
就像古人说的：物以类聚人以群分。
As the ancients said: Birds of a feather flock together.
我们周围的人或事，其实都有着我们的影子，在这些人或事上，都会存在一些我们相同的特质。
In fact, people or things around us have our shadow. In these people or things, there will be some of our same characteristics.
简单的说，大家都是同一个频道的，才会相互吸引，才会最终聚到一块。
In short, we are all on the same channel, so we will attract each other and finally get together.
就像一些人，即使是第一次见面，我们也会有一种特别的熟悉感，就像多年的好友一样，相处非常的舒服。
Like some people, even when we meet for the first time, we will have a special sense of familiarity. Like friends for many years, we get along very comfortably.
而有些人，我们即使认识了好多年了，可每一次见面，还是感觉非常的生疏，无话可说。
And some people, even though we have known each other for many years, still feel very strange and have nothing to say.
这就是频道的不同，自然无法相互吸引到一块。
This is the difference of channels, which naturally cannot attract each other.
我们想知道自己是什么样的人，往往只需要观察自己周边的人或事就明白了。
We want to know what kind of person we are. We often only need to observe the people or things around us.
所以，永远不要抱怨身边的人怎样怎样，因为他们从某种程度来说，也是我们的影子的一部分。
Therefore, never complain about the people around you, because they are part of our shadow to some extent.
想要改变现状，就努力去改变自己，等自己有了大改变，身边的一切自然也会跟着发生改变了。
If you want to change the status quo, try to change yourself. When you have a big change, everything around you will naturally change.
