有个定律，叫吸引力定律。
There is a law called the law of attraction.
你生活着的一切，都是被你吸引而来。
Everything you live is attracted by you.
你如果是一个消极，喜欢抱怨的人，那么你的周围也多是喜欢抱怨的人。
If you are a negative person who likes to complain, you are surrounded by people who like to complain.
你如果是一个积极上进、非常乐观的人，那么你的周围大多也是这样的一群人。
If you are a positive and optimistic person, most of you are surrounded by such people.
有句老话说：物以类聚人以群分。
There is an old saying: Birds of a feather flock together.
其实这也是吸引力定律的表现。
In fact, this is also the expression of the law of attraction.
和我们在同一个频道的，我们往往就会是一见如故，很快就能够变成很好的朋友，什么事情都可以谈得来。
When we are on the same channel, we often become friends at first sight, and soon become good friends. We can talk about everything.
和我们频道不一致的，我们就会本能的排斥，于是彼此会越来越没有交集了。
If it is not consistent with our channel, we will instinctively reject each other, so we will have no intersection with each other.
无论是人还是事物，都有其独特的属性和频道。
Both people and things have their unique attributes and channels.
只有同类或者相似的，才会聚到一块。
Only the same kind or similar will get together.
如果我们想身边有一群优秀的人，或者想吸引来好的事物，首先我们要努力变得优秀。
If we want to have a group of excellent people around us, or want to attract good things, we must first strive to become excellent.
从改变我们自身开始，我们想要的，都会被自己吸引而来。
From changing ourselves, all we want will be attracted by ourselves.
