福和祸，其实都是相依的。
In fact, happiness and misfortune are interdependent.
当我们悟透这个道理，我们才能够更好的面对人生的各种复杂的局面，才能让自己变得越来越厉害。
When we understand this truth, we can better face all kinds of complex situations in life and make ourselves more and more powerful.
任何事情，都具有两面性。
Everything has two sides.
没有绝对的好事，也没有绝对的坏事。
There is no absolute good, nor absolute bad.
这个世界上，从来不是非黑即白，这需要我们能够一分为二的看待问题。
In this world, it is never black or white, which requires us to look at the problem in two.
一件事情的发生，我们既要看待不好的一面，同时也要看待好的一面。
When something happens, we should not only look at the bad side, but also look at the good side.
比如在某一次岗位竞争中，自己失利了。
For example, I lost in a job competition.
从一定层面来说，是绝对的坏事，是令人非常不愉快的，容易让人变得从此一蹶不振。
From a certain point of view, it is absolutely bad, it is very unpleasant, and it is easy to make people fall back.
但从另一个方面来说，又是好事，这也能够让我们早点认识到自己的不足，是一次很好的自我反省和自我进步的一次机会。
But on the other hand, it is also a good thing. It can also make us realize our own shortcomings earlier, and it is a good opportunity for self-reflection and self-improvement.
当我们意识到这一点并积极的去改变，现在的暂时失利，可能就是我们下一次成功的基础。
When we realize this and actively change it, the current temporary failure may be the basis of our next success.
那么，坏事也就逐渐的转化为好事。
Then, bad things will gradually turn into good things.
所以，我们未来的走向，是好还是坏，取决于我们的态度和心态。
Therefore, whether our future direction is good or bad depends on our attitude and mentality.
