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当你停止了内耗,一切突然就变得顺利了

当你停止了内耗,一切突然就会变得顺利了。

When you stop internal friction, everything will suddenly become smooth.

想要运气越来越好,想要越来越顺,尤其一定要停止以下这几大内耗。

If you want to get better and better luck, you must stop the following internal friction.

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1、停止过于合群。

1. Stop being too sociable.

在一些人看来,合群给自己带来一定的安全感。

In the eyes of some people, gregariousness brings a certain sense of security.

其实,当如果变得过于合群,人就会活得特别的心累。

In fact, if you become too sociable, you will live a particularly tired life.

总想着去讨好别人,可越是去讨好别人,越是得到别人的嫌弃。

He always wants to please others, but the more he tries to please others, the more he will be disliked by others.

人,过于合群,往往会失去自我,或者会迷失自我,根本没有属于自己的原则和东西,也没有自己的主见。

People who are too sociable tend to lose themselves or lose themselves. They don’t have their own principles and things, and they don’t have their own opinions.

停止了过于合群,敢于坚持做好自己,一切才会有希望。

Stop being too gregarious and dare to insist on doing yourself well, and everything will be hopeful.

2、停止过多焦虑。

2. Stop worrying too much.

人过多的焦虑,是因为杞人忧天的忧虑导致的。

Too much anxiety is caused by unfounded worries.

很多时候,我们想象中的令人恐惧的事情,并不会发生,大部分都是自我想象而已。

Many times, the frightening things in our imagination will not happen. Most of them are just self-imagination.

人的命运本来就是莫测的,人是永远无法预测未来的样子的。

The fate of people is unpredictable, and people can never predict the future.

既然如此,何不豁达一些,少去忧虑未来,好好的活在当下呢。

In that case, why not be open-minded, worry less about the future and live in the present.

过好了当下,我们的好运和惊喜自然会不断。

After the present, our good luck and surprise will continue.

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