人到中年，经历了很多事情，才会领悟到一些道理。
In middle age, people experience many things before they realize some truths.
其中之一就是兄弟不共财，姐妹少往来。
One of them is that brothers do not share wealth, and sisters have less intercourse.
年轻的时候，我们往往认为兄弟姐妹之间应该互相帮助、分享，感情要紧密、亲密。
When we are young, we often believe that siblings should help and share with each other, and the relationship should be close and intimate.
但随着年龄的增长和社会阅历的积累，我们会发现，在现实生活中，兄弟姐妹之间也存在着各种问题。
But as we age and accumulate social experience, we will find that in real life, there are also various problems between siblings.
首先是“兄弟不共财”。
Firstly, ‘brothers do not share wealth’.
在共同拥有一笔财产时，兄弟姐妹之间常常会因为利益的分配不均而产生矛盾。
When sharing a property, conflicts often arise between siblings due to uneven distribution of benefits.
有些人会争执不休，甚至为了争夺某个财产而彻底翻脸。
Some people will argue endlessly, even turning their backs in order to compete for a certain property.
因此，在处理财产问题时，我们要慎重、公平，避免情绪用事，影响兄弟姐妹之间的关系。
Therefore, when dealing with property issues, we should be cautious and fair, avoiding emotional interference that may affect the relationship between siblings.
其次是“姐妹少往来”。
Secondly, there is a lack of communication among sisters.
相比较而言，姐妹之间比兄弟更加容易出现猜疑、勾心斗角等问题。
Compared to siblings, sisters are more prone to problems such as suspicion and infighting.
有些姐妹会因为嫉妒、竞争等原因而产生嫌隙，导致感情破裂。
Some sisters may develop animosity due to jealousy, competition, and other reasons, leading to emotional breakdown.
因此，在与姐妹相处时，我们要包容理解、互相尊重，不要因为小事而产生矛盾，更不要在背后说姐妹的闲话。
Therefore, when dealing with sisters, we should be tolerant, understand, respect each other, and avoid conflicts over small matters, let alone gossip about our sisters behind their backs.
