最好的孝顺，是对自己的人生负责。
The best filial piety is to be responsible for one’s own life.
我们应该以自己的健康、事业和幸福为前提来孝顺父母，重视自己的生命价值与人生发展。
We should be filial to our parents on the premise of our own health, career, and happiness, and attach importance to our own life value and development.
而不是一味地被固定的传统观念束缚住，单纯地践行孝顺，置身于被压迫和被利用的处境之中。
Rather than blindly being bound by fixed traditional concepts, simply practicing filial piety, and being exposed to oppression and exploitation.
如果自己一味地耗费在照顾家庭之上，会导致自己的健康和事业发展出现滞后，甚至有严重的后果。
“If you blindly spend time caring for your family, it can lead to a lag in your health and career development, and even have serious consequences.”.
孝顺不是一味地迁就父母，更要理性地思考自己的生活规划和人生目标。
Filial piety is not about blindly accommodating your parents, but rather about rationally thinking about your life plans and goals.
因为只有我们真正的强大，才能够给予父母帮助和支持。
Because only when we are truly strong can we give our parents help and support.
如果我们在成长的路上一直舍弃自己，父母也不会真正高兴和安心。
If we keep abandoning ourselves on the way to growth, our parents won’t be truly happy and secure.
因此，我们应该在孝顺父母的同时，坚持追求自我价值和发展，不断获得精神上的满足和成长。
Therefore, we should adhere to the pursuit of self worth and development while being filial to our parents, and constantly obtain spiritual satisfaction and growth.
