真正厉害的人,其实都是比较习惯独来独往。
People who are really powerful are actually used to being alone.
为什么呢?
Why?
因为独来独往能够给予他们很多的好处,比如以下这几个:
Because going alone can give them many benefits, such as the following:
阅读更多1、可以更好的自律。
1. You can be more self-disciplined.
独来独往,受到外界的干扰因素会比较少。
Being independent will be less interfered by external factors.
受到干扰少,就可以更好的约束自己去做更为重要的事情。
With less interference, you can better constrain yourself to do more important things.
如果过于合群,总会因为不好拒绝别人而把自己本来很重要的事情耽搁了。
If you are too sociable, you will always delay your important things because you are not good at rejecting others.
当然,自律的环境,需要靠自己去创造。
Of course, the self-discipline environment needs to be created by oneself.
2、可以活得更舒服。
2. You can live more comfortably.
活在人群中,往往都会活得比较累。
Living in a crowd is often tiring.
容易被别人的眼光束缚住,容易刻意的伪装自己。
It is easy to be bound by the eyes of others, and it is easy to deliberately disguise yourself.
而在独处的时候,可以更好的活出自我,感觉怎么舒服就怎么生活,这就的独处的好处。
When you are alone, you can better live yourself, and live as you feel comfortable, which is the benefit of being alone.
不用去看谁的脸色。
Don’t look who’s face.
3、拥有更多的属于自己的时间。
3. Have more time for yourself.
人的时间和精力,是有限的。
Human time and energy are limited.
很多时候,我们的时间和精力都是浪费在一些无用社交上。
Many times, our time and energy are wasted on useless social activities.
只有拒绝一些无用社交,敢于独处,我们才能够更好的利用好自己的时间和精力。
Only by refusing some useless social activities and daring to be alone can we make better use of our time and energy.