喜欢独来独往的人,最常见的是以下这几类人。
The most common types of people who like to go alone are the following.
1、比较自卑的人。
1. A person with low self-esteem.
越是自卑的人,越是不愿意在人多的场合展现自己。
The more inferiority complex people are, the less willing they are to show themselves in a crowded environment.
他们担心会出丑,他们担心会被笑话,他们担心被人看不起。
They worry about making a fool of themselves. They worry about being laughed at. They worry about being looked down upon.
实际上,并没有人会刻意针对他们,只是他们的内心比较敏感而已。
In fact, no one will deliberately target them, but their hearts are more sensitive.
甚至别人不经意间的一句话或者一个眼神,都可能会让他们觉得自己不被待见。
Even a casual word or a glance from others may make them feel that they are not treated well.
其实,如果有一个开朗的人,多带他们去一些重要的参合,多锻炼就会适应了。
In fact, if there is a cheerful person, take them to some important participation, and exercise more will adapt.
或者等他们开始在某一个领域有比较大的成绩时,他们的自信才会到来。
Or their confidence will come when they start to make great achievements in a certain field.
2、内心特别强大的人。
2. A person with a strong heart.
有些人,选择独来独往,并不是因为害怕谁。
Some people choose to be alone, not because they are afraid of others.
相反,他们的内心非常的强大,甚至是比谁都自信。
On the contrary, their hearts are very strong, even more confident than others.
当自己的决定不被认可,或者被质疑,他们就选择了不需要任何人的理解,自己独自去行动,用结果来证明自己。
When their decisions are not recognized or questioned, they choose not to need anyone’s understanding, and act alone to prove themselves with the results.