习惯独来独往的人，通常都是以下这几类人。
People who are used to going alone are usually of the following types.
1、性格比较内向的人。
1. People who are introverted.
他们 不善于人际交往。
They are not good at interpersonal communication.
在人多的场合，他们不知道说什么，越是热闹的人群，他们反而越是孤独，找不到能够说得上话的人。
In a crowded place, they don’t know what to say. The more noisy the crowd is, the more lonely they are. They can’t find anyone who can speak.
甚至在亲戚、同事熟人比较多的场合，也会感觉尴尬，感觉无所适从。
Even in situations where relatives and colleagues have more acquaintances, they will feel embarrassed and at a loss.
他们想找话题，想融入，奈何融入不进去。
They want to find topics and integrate, but they can’t integrate.
所以，对于他们来说，选择独来独往才更舒服。
Therefore, it is more comfortable for them to choose to be alone.
2、自律能力特别强的人。
2. People with strong self-discipline.
他们这种人，属于选择性独来独往。
People like them are selective and independent.
在不忙的时候，他们可以和周围的人闹成一片，谈得来。
When they are not busy, they can make trouble with the people around them and talk well.
可在有属于自己的事情忙的时候，他们会选择独来独往，不愿意任何的外在事情打扰到自己。
But when they are busy with their own things, they will choose to be alone and do not want any external things to disturb them.
如果不是紧要的事情，谁来打扰他们都不欢迎，也不会为了给谁面子而影响到自己已经做好了的计划。
If it is not an urgent matter, anyone who bothers them will not be welcome, and it will not affect their plans to save face.
他们 的强大自律能力，使得他们变得独来独往。
Their strong self-discipline makes them independent.
