其实，人的格局是被委屈撑大的。
In fact, the pattern of people is supported by grievances.
遇到的事情多了，遇到的不顺多了，遇到的各种奇葩事情多了，人就慢慢的豁达了，也逐渐的看开了。
The more things we encounter, the more difficulties we encounter, and the more wonderful things we encounter, the more people become open-minded and open-minded.
在第一次被人批评的时候，我们觉得很伤自尊，甚至想和对方大干一架。
When we were criticized for the first time, we felt that it hurt our self-esteem and even wanted to fight with each other.
在没有做错事，依然被领导责怪的时候，刚开始我们都会愤然不已，甚至整夜因此睡不着觉，还可能好几天都因此郁闷焦虑。
When we are still blamed by the leaders for not doing anything wrong, we will be angry at the beginning, even unable to sleep all night, and may be depressed and anxious for several days.
在第一次遇到一些奇葩事情的时候，我们都会难以控制自己的情绪，或者表达自己的不满，或者表达自己的不屑。
When we first encounter some wonderful things, we can hardly control our emotions, or express our dissatisfaction, or express our disdain.
可经历的多了，见识多了，慢慢的就无所谓了，我们开始学会了有选择的过滤自己不喜欢的。
With more experience and knowledge, it doesn’t matter. We have learned to selectively filter what we don’t like.
遇到不喜欢的人，我们只是微微一笑，然后转身就忘了。
When we meet someone we don’t like, we just smile and then turn around and forget.
遇到对自己不友好的人，我们也懒得生气，转身远离，然后把对方忘了。
When we meet people who are unfriendly to us, we are too lazy to get angry, turn away, and then forget about each other.
遇到领导的刁难，我们内心大骂一顿，然后笑着点头，转身把对方的话当成了耳边风。
When faced with the difficulties of the leaders, we scolded in our hearts, then smiled and nodded, and turned to take the other side’s words as a breeze.
不再刻意为难自己，也不再为别人的情绪所累，开始淡看云起云落，自己掌控自己的情绪和命运。
He no longer deliberately embarrasses himself, nor is he tired of other people’s emotions. He starts to watch the clouds rise and fall, and controls his own emotions and destiny.
