一个人越来越沉默，逐渐的消失在朋友圈的几大原因。
There are several reasons why a person becomes more and more silent and gradually disappears in the circle of friends.
1、混得非常的不好。
1. It’s very bad.
自己和以前熟悉的人相比，混得比较差。
Compared with the people I used to know, I got along worse.
比如自己以前的朋友和同学，都比自己混得好，而自己却越来越艰难，甚至只能用落魄来形容。
For example, my former friends and classmates are doing better than myself, but I am getting more and more difficult, even can only be described as “down”.
当一个人混得非常不好，他会选择消失在大家的视野中。
When a person is very bad, he will choose to disappear from everyone’s view.
毕竟，社会都是现实的。
After all, society is realistic.
当你混得不好，就容易被人看不起，而且自己也感觉没有面子。
When you don’t do well, you are easily looked down upon by others, and you feel that you have no face.
沉默着，消失着，也是一种自我尊严的防护。
Silence and disappearance are also a protection of self dignity.
2、过得非常的好，远超身边的人。
2. I have a very good life, far better than the people around me.
当一个人混得非常的好，他会逐渐的远离混得不好的曾非常熟悉的人。
When a person is doing very well, he will gradually stay away from those who have been very familiar with him.
为什么呢？
Why?
因为担心别人求助或者借钱之类，而且自己又不好意思拒绝。
Because I am afraid that others will ask for help or borrow money, and I am ashamed to refuse.
比如借钱给了，又担心别人无力归还，而且又不好意思催要。
For example, if you lend money, you are worried that others will not be able to repay it, and you are embarrassed to urge.
所以，他们选择保持距离和疏远，甚至消失，这也算是一种对自己利益的自我防护吧。
Therefore, they choose to keep distance and distance, or even disappear, which is also a kind of self-protection for their own interests.
