成大器者，必经历四种磨炼，这是人生发展过程中必不可少的经验。
To become a great person, one must go through four types of trials, which are essential experiences in the process of life development.
第一种磨炼是“物质的磨炼”。
The first type of refinement is the “refinement of matter”.
只有在适当的物质条件下，才能够更好地发挥自己的能力，实现自己的人生价值。
Only under appropriate material conditions can one better utilize one’s abilities and realize one’s life value.
第二种磨炼是“精神的磨炼”。
The second type of exercise is the ‘spiritual exercise’.
在面对挫折、压力和困难时，要学会坚强，要有自信、有勇气，要有明朗的思考和坚定的信仰。
When facing setbacks, pressure, and difficulties, one should learn to be strong, have confidence, courage, clear thinking, and firm faith.
第三种磨炼是“社交的磨炼”。
The third type of exercise is the ‘social exercise’.
在交往中，要学会沟通、合作、分享、感恩，要懂得尊重、包容、理解和接纳他人，才能够成为一个有价值的人。
In communication, one must learn to communicate, cooperate, share, and be grateful. Only by understanding respect, tolerance, understanding, and acceptance of others can one become a valuable person.
第四种磨炼是“道德的磨炼”。
The fourth type of exercise is the ‘moral exercise’.
要有自己的人格，要有自己的原则和底线，要有责任感、感恩心、爱心，要有健全的人格品质。
To have one’s own personality, principles and bottom line, a sense of responsibility, gratitude, love, and a sound personality.
只有经过这四种磨炼，才能够成为一个成功的人，成为一个真正有价值的人，成为一个对社会、对家人、对自己有所贡献的人。
Only through these four tests can one become a successful person, a truly valuable person, and a person who contributes to society, family, and oneself.
