独来独往、不爱说话的人，多半是有以下几种心态：
People who come and go alone and don’t like to talk often have the following mentality:
第一种心态是内向。
The first mindset is introverted.
内向的人通常比较安静、保守，喜欢独处，思想比较深沉。
Introverted people are usually quiet, conservative, enjoy solitude, and have deep thoughts.
他们不太喜欢过多的社交活动，觉得在安静的环境中更容易思考问题。
They don’t enjoy too much social activity and feel that it’s easier to think in a quiet environment.
所以他们通常都是“独行侠”，独自行走在路上，享受安静的美好。
So they are usually ‘lone rangers’, walking alone on the road and enjoying the quiet beauty.
第二种心态是孤独。
The second mentality is loneliness.
有的人独来独往是因为内心感到孤独和无助。
Some people come and go alone because they feel lonely and helpless inside.
他们可能之前经历过一些挫折，失去了信任和依赖。于是他们就宁愿独自一人，也不愿意去寻找朋友。
They may have experienced some setbacks before, losing trust and dependence. So they would rather be alone than looking for friends.
第三种心态是自我保护。
The third mentality is self-protection.
有人独来独往是因为他们比较小心谨慎，不太相信别人。
Some people come and go alone because they are more cautious and do not trust others very much.
他们觉得与人交往会让自己处于被动的位置，而自己独自行动则可以保护自己。
They feel that interacting with others puts them in a passive position, while acting alone can protect themselves.
每个人都有自己独特的心态和性格特点，独来独往也是他们自由选择的生活方式。
Everyone has their own unique mentality and personality traits, and being alone is also their freely chosen way of life.
但如果过度孤僻、与人难以交往，就可能需要调整自己的心态，积极寻找适合自己的社交圈子
But if you are overly isolated and difficult to socialize with others, you may need to adjust your mindset and actively seek out social circles that are suitable for you
