最高级的善良，应该是不讨好、不评价和不越界。
The highest level of kindness should be not pleasing, not evaluating, and not crossing boundaries.
首先，不讨好意味着我们不会为了谋取别人的好感或赞许而去做某件事情。
Firstly, not pleasing others means that we will not do something to gain their favor or approval.
我们应当相信自己的良心和行为足以证明自己的价值和善良。
We should believe that our conscience and actions are sufficient to prove our value and kindness.
其次，不评价意味着我们不应该轻易地对别人的行为或生活方式进行评价，不要过于太过自以为是。
Secondly, not evaluating means that we should not easily evaluate others’ behavior or lifestyle, and should not be too self righteous.
每个人都有自己的生活选择和经验，我们应该尊重别人的独立性和自由，不去评价或将自己的观点强加给别人。
Everyone has their own life choices and experiences, and we should respect the independence and freedom of others, not to evaluate or impose our own views on others.
最后，不越界意味着我们需要尊重别人的隐私和空间。
Finally, not crossing boundaries means that we need to respect others’ privacy and space.
我们不应该跨越别人的界限或获得别人不愿意分享的信息。
We should not cross the boundaries of others or obtain information that others are unwilling to share.
尊重别人的隐私和空间，同时保持关注和支持，是最高级别的善良。
Respecting the privacy and space of others while maintaining attention and support is the highest level of kindness.
总体而言，最高级别的善良不仅需要我们具备高度的道德素养和自我认知，同时也需要我们尊重别人，保持一定的距离和自由，同时积极产生对别人生命的积极影响。
Overall, the highest level of kindness not only requires us to possess high moral literacy and self-awareness, but also requires us to respect others, maintain a certain distance and freedom, and actively have a positive impact on others’ lives.
这样的善良不仅是我们自己，也是我们社会需要的品质之一。
Such kindness is not only our own, but also one of the qualities that our society needs.
