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太过“精明”的人，在处理问题时往往会使用各种技巧和手段，以达到自己的目的。

People who are too “smart” often use various techniques and means to achieve their goals when dealing with problems.

这种行为可能会导致其它人的不满和不信任，进而影响他们的领导力和影响力，难以成为真正的大器。

成为大器的人并不是一帆风顺的，他们需要经历很多困难和挑战，磨练自己的心态、意志和能力。

Becoming a great person is not always easy. They need to experience many difficulties and challenges to hone their mentality, willpower, and abilities.

以下是成为大器之人必须要熬过的四种苦：

成为大器之人不仅需要才华和努力，还需要具备综合素质和特点。

Becoming a great person requires not only talent and effort, but also comprehensive qualities and characteristics.

以下是成为大器之人的四个特点：

成为大器之人胜在思维格局的转变。

Becoming a great person depends on changing the pattern of thinking.

而思维格局的转变不仅仅意味着智力上的提升，更多的是心态的升华与自我认知的深化。

每个人都希望能够成为一个大器之人，但是成为大器者并非易事。

Everyone hopes to become a great person, but becoming a great person is not easy.

大器的成长路上必然需要经历各种磨难与磨炼，以下是其中四种磨炼：

一个人的财富来源有多种，包括劳动所得、投资收益、继承、赠与等方式。

A person’s wealth comes from various sources, including labor income, investment income, inheritance, gifts, and other ways.

其中，劳动所得作为传统的财富来源，是最为普遍和稳定的一种。

大气是一种良好的品质，它能够塑造一个人的形象和人格，赢得他人的尊重和信任。

Atmosphere is a good quality that can shape a person’s image and personality and win the respect and trust of others.

“人到中年才明白：兄弟不共财，姐妹少往来！”

“It’s only in middle age that people understand: Brothers don’t share wealth, sisters don’t communicate!”

这句话的意思是，在家庭之中，兄弟姐妹之间合作共同经济是需要谨慎考虑和平衡的。

The meaning of this sentence is that in a family, cooperation between siblings in a common economy requires careful consideration and balance.

“亲戚不共财，共财断往来”这句话的意思是说，在亲戚之间，尽管有联系和关系，但共同经济合作往往不能长期维持。

“Relatives do not share wealth, sharing wealth cuts off contacts.” This sentence means that despite connections and relationships between relatives, common economic cooperation often cannot be maintained for a long time.

以下这几种人，容易错失发大财的机会。

The following types of people are prone to miss out on opportunities to make a fortune.

1.内向型人格。

1. Introverted personality.

这种人性格比较内向，不太喜欢社交和表达自己，更喜欢独处和思考。